people

y is it that when u want someone that person might not want you back?
and the one you dont want wil want you

Been in a relationship for three years with who I envisioned to b my soul mate, but out of the three years, there have been laughs, cries, bonds made and broken without the slightest of care

I never believed in love,
I believed even when people claim there is love dat I can never fall victim to it because I only date for  fun

I have a friend, maybe had, but anyways he was just my friend. Cute in every sense of the world, he has this baby face dat makes u wish u could hold and nurture him, keep him away from harms way. I knew he was crushing on me but I wasn't going to treat him d way I treated d other men in my life because to me, he is a fragile being. I kept him as my friend and gradually I started confiding in him my most intimate actions and thoughts, he had become my best friend, my very own source of inspiration

As the years flew by we kept on loosing contact and gaining it back because I had moved to Canada
In the year 2005 we reunited thru YAHOO MESSENGER

He said hi
And I wondered who he was
He said this is Richard
And I asked again RICHARD WHO?
He said Efe  oh have u forgotten me so soon?
And I had a flashback of who he was and screamed to my self in realization
We kept chatting reliving the past and taking about the present and also made plans to see in my up coming trip back to my mothers land for a holiday

Is friendship really worth it?

WAS SHE REALLY A FRIEND?
DID SHE ACT DAT WAY BC SHE WAS TRYING TO SAVE HER MARRIAGE?
PLS I NEED UR ADVICE FAST

i met her 6 and half yrs ago, i tot we had the best of friendships she travelled out of the country to meet her husband,i missed her so much and when i had the opportunity to visit i did unfortunately her husband started hitting on me, i didn't think i should tell her, everyone said i should leave without telling her but a few said i should leave but let her know the kind of husband she has.
i took none of the advice that was given but when i could not take the trash anymore from the trash of a husband i lashed out on him and she was there, she got curious and wanted to know what happened, her husband said nothing but when she wont drop it he left the house, i wasn't sure what to do but i thought what the hell i could tell her hoping our friendship will stand the best of time so i told her EVERYTHING she pretended to understand but some days later she practically drove me out in the middle of the night
least i forget she is a person who goes the extra mile for people at least she has done a lot for me
now everyone says i should forget about her DAT she wasn't my friend to begin with but i think otherwise so please tell me honestly what should i do ?because i really really really like her
AND one more thing since i left that night over a month ago she has not bordered to check if i got back to Canada from America safely
It's been awhile now and it's obvious I have lost a friend